Author: Adisha
•Thursday, February 26, 2009
This is a Forward I'd read long back and found really interesting and useful as tips. Hope it helps some of you ( male / female ) out there as well !!!

Tell tale signs your relationship may not be perfect -

1)if a man wants you , nothing can keep him away. if he doesn't want you , nothing can make him stay.

2)stop trying to change yourself for u relationship that's not meant to be.

3)if he keeps changing his mind about the relationship or is forever postponing commitment, take that a big sign that he is unstable. do you really want to be with a man like that ?

4)don't stay because you think "it will get better ". you'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying having wasted all that time on someone who didn't deserve it.

5)the only person you can control in a relationship is you .don't fall for the "I'm confused role "remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him move on).

6)demand respect and if he can't give it .he can"have you "!

7)remember ,actions speak louder than words. but keep in time words are as important, at times.

8)never let a man define who u are.

9)A man will onl treat you the way u Allow him to treat you .

10)you should not be the one doing all the bending…………compromise is a two way street.

11)when it feels like it's time to let go ... let go. knowing you've tried you're hardest.

12)a real healthy relation ship requires two people one person can end it but it takes two
to make it work.
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5 Spin Offs:

On February 26, 2009 at 11:39 AM , TM said...

good tips

 
On February 27, 2009 at 4:08 AM , dreamy said...

I must say...really helpful..one knows all these things...but still doesnt hurt to read them again once in a while

 
On February 27, 2009 at 8:28 AM , Adisha said...

@ TM - Glad you agree !!

@ Dreamy - Long time. Thanks for visiting. Well, when I read them for the first time, I wasn't Aware of a lot of them. :)

 
On February 27, 2009 at 10:06 AM , cutestangel said...

great tips
I would like to add one more;
there should be no egos in a relationship.

 
On February 27, 2009 at 10:12 AM , Adisha said...

@ cutestangel - Thanks dear. Yup. No egos. Only Love . :D